In Memory of

Jerry Marca

 Born: December 8th, 1951
Went to Heaven: August 8th, 2000

 
Jeannette  Carol Joe (Jerry's Brother)
MarkSuzy Gary Kathy
Beth Helena Sal Jr. & Judy
Richard & Anna Wayne&Cheril Midge J.
John Jr. Don & Debra Mary Anne
  Faith Christian Community Church
 
 

Jeannette (cousin)

My heart is deeply saddened and many tears have fallen. I thank our Heavenly
Father for allowing me the chance to communicate with Jerry after so many
years before he left us. I pray God will comfort the hearts of all of your
family...I know Jerry is with our Precious Lord and that I rejoice for. I
trust Gods plan, though here in the world in our flesh the pain is
indescribable. My heart, my sincere prayers are with you all in this time.
Please Please hug Stella and the children and tell them I love them and that
God loves them and God will comfort them. May God comfort you Joe and bring
peace to your mind and heart. I want so much to be there to hug you and the
family. It hurts me that I am not able to fly out there. I love you all. God
will bring rest and peace and Jerry will live with us in our hearts until we
see him again.

With my deepest thoughts,

Jeannette
He is our Comforter!!!!!!

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Carol (cousin)

Thank you for remembering me.  I am deeply saddened.  My mom is at my house.  We cried together.  We will most wholeheartedly miss him.  I cared for Jerry as my brother.  My mother is still sobbing.  I just read your note to her.  I spoke to your mom earlier.  I was going to call you but did not have your number.  I can't imagine what Stella is going through also right now.  This whole week I was unable to sleep right, kept on waking up every hour.  Wish you and your family strength especially your mom losing her son.  Again, thank you and Please extent my sorrow to everyone

Cousin Carol

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Kathy

Thanks so much for the updates. You have been a tremendous help. I just talked to Stella last night and was waiting to hear from her about all of the tests. I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. Jerry was a wonderful person. . one of the most kind people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. May your grieving process be shortened by the flood of wonderful memories of him. There are so many I am sure it will help.

Thanks again,
God bless....
Kathy

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Mark and Suzy

I've cried many tears since I got your Email about Jerry.  Thank you SOOO
much for sending the web site!!!  Will the Friday one be on the same website?
 I work for a funeral home and I had tried to find the obit myself and found
that site but must have looked too early.
Jerry and I used to play name that hymn/praise song and talk about all the
wonderful words and how they applied to our lives.  Stella played too
sometimes.  We tried so hard to stump each other!!! I firmly believe that
Jerry Marca knew every word to every hymn ever written!!!! I think the thing
I would like to know is what music are you using in his service?  When I
think about Jerry I think about the fact that now he's singing all those
songs in the presence of his Lord.  What a wonderful time he must be having.
To know Jerry was to love Jerry.  He was an extraordinary man.  How is your
mom holding up and how are Stella and the girls?  I'm going to write Stella a
long Email in a few days.  Please keep us all informed.  You have no idea how
much we  appreciate you taking the time to let us know what's going on!! 
My prayer is that God will comfort your heart and you will feel His loving
arms embracing you every second through this terrible time in your life.  You
haven't lost your brother.  You know EXACTLY where he is and one day we'll
all be singing together in the presence of God. 

Much love,
Mark and Suzy

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Gary and Family,

On behalf of those that are left behind, we are so sorry to hear of Jerry's passing.  It is especially painful, being just one year since Betty's passing.  We have been experiencing deaths in our family tree, as well; as we all know, death touches us all at some point.  The good news is that when we pass through the vail of death, we truly lose little, but gain eternity.  The Bible assures us of the Blessed Hope.  By this, we rejoice that Jerry truly is rejoicing with the Lord.  Our thoughts and prayers remain with all of you at this time.
Love,
Gary O. & Family (Carmichael, California)

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Sal Jr. and Judy

Uncle Jerry was  very special to me. He always loved to kid around with you and made us all laugh at his jokes. My uncle had a very kind and a loving heart. He would give you his shirt off his back if you needed one...I am very thankful that he got to meet my wife Judy and got to talk with her. Who would ever expect my Uncle to pass away 1 year and 1 month after my mother passed away from pancreatic cancer last year ..Cancer what a word. It still sends chills down my spine..

 

Uncle Jerry, you are sadly missed by all of your family. But you are with Jesus and my mother Elizabeth and my grandfather Emanuel and all the other loved  ones that have passed on...

 

My mother told us before she passed on that "Jesus has us all in the palm of his hand...He will solve all of your problems. Jesus loves all of you. And he wants all of you to live with him in HEAVEN forever."

God bless.

 Sal & Judy  Marca

 

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Beth H

Dear Joe,

I know you are incredibly busy now, but I wanted to take this opportunity to
thank you from the bottom of my heart for keeping me (and all of Jerry's many
friends) updated during such a difficult time.

I do not have to tell you how very special Jerry was (and will always be). 
He touched so very many lives through his web site (to which I was privileged
to have contributed some items), and through his e-mails to his Internet
"buddies."  His wonderful sense of humor was a great testament to the fact
that humor is one of God's greatest gifts.  Jerry's love of God and of his
family was boundless; I was always so impressed at how he made so much time
for his daughters through coaching their sports, and attending all their
school events.  I know how difficult that can be when business travel takes
up much of a person's time.  My husband used to travel quite a bit, and it
was difficult. 

You, Stella, Julie and Daniella, and all of your family will forever be in my
prayers.  A close and loving family like yours is all too rare these days. 
God Bless all of you.

I will miss Jerry and his e-mails of jokes, stories, and inspirational
poetry.  I am a better person for having made his "acquaintance" through AOL.
 My husband and I plan on attending the visiting hours today.

Sincerely,
Beth H.
Scottsdale, AZ

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Helena

Joe,
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you.  We'll be praying for your
family that God will grace you all with the strength you need as you work
through the loss of your brother. 
 
Take care of yourself and family,
Helena

(Motorola)

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Faith Christian Community Church

You have our deepest sympathy. We know it is devastating when a close member of ones family goes to be with the Lord. May God give you comfort and peace during this time. We are all praying for you.

In Memory of Jerry Marca 5 Gideon Memorial Bibles are being provided by Faith Christian Community Church.

Jesus said, "I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live,"

John 11:25

 

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Desert Ridge Community Church

Jerry and his family began attending DRCC shortly after our initial service in 1998. They have been faithful to God through DRCC and have hosted several events in their home including Teen Talk and Growing Kids God's Way. Jerry was a very giving person and was always concerned for the welfare of others. Jerry went to be with the Lord in Heaven on Tuesday, August 8th. He will be greatly missed by hi wife Stella, two daughters, Juliana and Daniella, brothers and his mother Maria (who lived with Jerry and Stella) and by all of his family and friends.

Both of Jerry and Stella's families moved to the United States from Italy when they were children. They met and married as young adults and eventually moved to Arizona. Jerry was employed at American Express.

The people of DRCC wish to express their deepest sympathy to family and friends. May God grant them His peace and comfort during their time of grief.

 

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Wayne and Cheril

This world, however beautiful, was never meant to be the place that we would call our home for all eternity. And though we would not choose to leave, a loving God knows best. He lifts us to a place of peace and rest. For He has built a mansion where His children will abide. Free from pain and sorrow, forever at His side. He said He'd never leave us to face our trials alone. And though sometimes we fail Him, He never fails His own. And even when our choices are less than He would ask. He knows when human courage is unequal to the task. We cannot judge what happens, though tears and questions start. We only see what's visible. God sees into the heart. And though there may be many things that we cannot explain, we can be sure it breaks His heart to see His children's pain.

In loving arms, He bears us to a quiet place apart where He mends the wounded spirit and heals the broken heart. And though these ones we love so much have left our present sight. And passed into a better world of majesty and light. Someday we'll be together in our Father's home above, where we'll thank Him for His mercy and praise Him for His love.

May God ease your hour of sorrow and surround you with His love. And may it bring you strength to know our father's house above is a house of many mansions where His Son has set aside special places near Him. For His loved ones to abide.

With Sympathy,

Your friends in Christ,

Wayne and Cheril

 

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Midge Johnson

Please accept with deepest sympathy the heartfelt thought that there is hope in each new tomorrow.

With love and prayers,

Midge J. (Faith Christian Community Church)

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Johnny Jr. (Nephew)

Jesus Christ's love and kindness were readily displayed through my uncle. As I read the wonderful testimonials, I think how he personally touched my life by his Godly example. I remember my childhood when my family gathered in N.J. at my grandmother's house. My uncle always made me feel important and loved. My only regret is that I missed the opportunity to know him closer. My uncle's website is awesome, he was truly a man of God. He is an example to me of what a family should and could be like. When I visited my uncle in April, he was so weak and fatigued. He asked me, "...so Johnny, how are you feeling?". He apologized for falling asleep but still wanted to take time for me. My tribute to my uncle is short of what he deserves. Uncle Jerry, I'll never forget your smile, your laugh, your kind words, and of course, your sense of humor!!!!

"Quame ambulance!!!!!"

I love you and will always remember you your nephew,

Johnny

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Donald & Deborah

May God's love carry you through this time of sadness and bring you peace and comfort in the days to come.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Even in the midst of your grief God will give you joy and peace.

Don and Debra

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Mary Anne F, Scottsdale, AZ

Jerry was a special, loving, compassionate man, who truly was sent from God to do His work, with his sites and his wonderful letters that we corresponded back and forth with. You see, I met Jerry through my sister, Beth H, and his wonderful, inspirational sites and prayers made such a difference to me. I am chronically ill, and, he made such a loving difference in my life with his caring words. I was lucky to talk with him before he got too ill, so was blessed and AM blessed, every time I remember his humor and love. The poem that you, Joe put on this site was apt and beautiful. Jerry's time was done, he is now with God and at peace, a job well done behind him. I will never forget him. God bless you all, Mary Anne F, Scottsdale, AZ

Mary Anne F, Scottsdale, AZ

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Joe (Jerry's brother)

Jerry was the baby of our family. We were 4 brothers and Jerry was the youngest. My 2 older brothers John and Sal were closer in age and Jerry and I were close to the same age so we spend time together as we were growing up. We gave ourselves nick names. He called me, "Ramo" and I used to call him, "Chuck".

I still remember Jerry as a little child. He was the cutest baby that I ever saw at that time. I was always protective of my baby brother Jerry. During those early years, Jerry was my best friend. We spend time together. We went bowling, played football and softball together as kids.

He was my best man when I got married. Jerry loved children very much. I remember when my daughter Lisa was born. He just adored and loved her so much. He would spend time with her and played with her and would give her so much love and attention as any person could ever give.

I will never forget, about 3 years ago when I had neck surgery, Jerry took time off from work and was there by my side next to me. This was my first surgery that I had and I was very scared. They had to remove a disc and replace with a bone on the back of my neck. But Jerry was right there next to me right by my side, every minute. He would tell me the funniest stories and jokes before my surgery and he would make me laugh. Those jokes and stories were so funny that I forgot that I was at the hospital for surgery. He was a joy to be around. And after the surgery, he was there for me. After the surgery he was there anytime that I needed him.

Jerry loved his kids so much, Juliana and Daniella. I remember coming over his house and he would say I want to show you a short movie that I made of Juliana and Daniella. And after that he would show us other movies and more movies of his kids. He wanted all of us to see the joy of his life, in his kids. His kids were very special to him and he loved them dearly.

He had several back surgeries in the last 5 years. But while he was still in pain with his back he would still coach the little league softball team with his kids and be there with them and for them. I remember watching him coach while his back was still hurting. He would never complain about his back hurting. I remember Mom calling me at home and saying, "You brother Jerry's back is hurting, call him". And when I would call Jerry he would say, "Joe, I'm fine". But I would say but Mom said that your back is hurting but he would say, "I'm fine Joe. Everything is OK". But he was hurting but never wanted anyone to think that because he did not want his family to worry.

Jerry and I used to sing gospel songs together. I would play the piano and Jerry would harmonize with me. We sang His Eye is on the Sparrow, Whispering Hope, Supper Time and many other old gospel songs. A month before Jerry went to Heaven, Jerry asked me to play gospel songs over his house with our family and we sang to Jerry. I could tell that Jerry was hurting with the cancer but he enjoyed hearing those songs. That day blessed me so much.

When I was down. All I had to do was to pick up the phone and call Jerry and my discouragement would turn to happiness and laughter because Jerry would always turn something sad into something funny and would make me forget all of my troubles and frustrations.

I remember the last day of Jerry's life here in this world. I was at work on Tuesday morning. I got a page from my wife, Rose at 8:00am. I was about to leave to go to a meeting. I immediately called her back and Rose said, "Jerry has gone for the worse". I quickly went to John C. Lincoln Hospital. I saw Jerry there before he went to be with the Lord. I spend the next hour and 45 minutes there by his side praying for him and asking God to heal him but in the last few moments of Jerry life, I told Jerry that God was right there next to him and that he would take care of Him. I told Jerry that God is holding you by His hand and He's by your side right now. He loves you and we love you very much.

Jerry I miss you so much. I love you Jerry. Someday we will all be together again. Now you are not suffering anymore but are in heaven with Dad.

Your loving brother,

Joe Marca

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Richard & Anna

Humorous, inquisitive, family oriented and spiritual. One of many words spoken by family and friends that describe who Jerry Marca was in life. We shared many moments of laughter and deep thought, exchanged ideas and dreams, words of guidance and spiritual support. His love for Stella, Juliana and
Daniella was immeasurable. He thrived on providing for his family, ensuring their well being came before his own personal needs. He lived for his kids dreams and dreamed for his kids. He was a devoted father. We witnessed all of this and there is so much more to tell. There was so much more he had to
offer and to give. Jerry left this world to early. His work was finished here....or has it just begun. We think it has. His spirit tells us so. 

We will miss him on Christmas Eve, at our kids birthday parties, sharing where he found the best deal in town, listening to him talk about his children, sharing inspirational email messages, and rattling off Rodney
Dangerfield and Henny Yougman jokes...and the Santa like laughs and roars that went with them.

Jerry, you will remain forever in our hearts. 

Love,

Richard and Anna

Brianna, Gabriella, Anthony and Arianne

 

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WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH